Sunday’s Winter Flight sponsors and runners help homeless
My favorite event of the year happens on Sunday afternoon. As a
participant, volunteer and eventually race director, I have wanted to
build an interesting race every year that attracts runners and walkers
of all abilities to Salisbury.
This will be our first Winter Flight year as a Runner Friendly
Community, a national designation that fewer than 60 cities nationwide
have. I hope you’ve noticed those signs near the major entrances to
Salisbury. Something just fits when these words are mentioned together;
Salisbury, runners and doing good things for the community.
For 37 years, Winter Flight has been one of the best races in the
southeast, attracting some amazing athletes. The female course record is
still held by a former Olympian, Joan Nesbitt of Chapel Hill. But the
races are about all the people who choose to take their own time to run
or walk in Salisbury to help support those of our neighbors who need it
most.
The historic 8K course is challenging, but I hear
every year about those who have done most of the 37 events. Just last
year, we had participants from Hawaii, California and five more states.
None of them had a chance to win either the 8K or the 5K, but they came
for the experience and the final result of supporting the homeless.
Last year, Winter Flight’s three events raised a record $12,000 for
Rowan Helping Ministries. Our goal from day one of planning was to top
that total with Sunday afternoon’s event.
Careful purchasing, thoughtful best practices, and lots of community
partners make me think we can do it. At least 35 community partners, led
by title sponsor New Sarum Brewing Company, all help us in the effort.
And lots and lots of runners and walkers from near and far add the final pieces to pull it all together.
Kyna Grubb, Executive Director at Rowan
Helping Ministries said, “Winter Flight is an opportunity for a generous
and compassionate community rallying together to ensure those who are
hungry, homeless, or hurting are not forgotten. The success of this
event makes it possible for many of our most fragile citizens to have a
safe space to rest, with a roof over their head and the resources needed
to overcome challenging obstacles in their life and find stable
housing. The Salisbury Rowan Runners Club is an amazing partner helping
to feed our neighbors and ensure families in Rowan County no longer have
to wonder where their next meal will come from or make a choice to warm
their home or have a nutritious meal. From serving in Jeannie’s Kitchen
to hosting races, Salisbury Rowan Runners Club demonstrates concern
backed by action for our community’s health and happiness.”
Bottom line, if you enjoy some time outside, want to test yourself
with exercise and just enjoy helping a good cause for a reasonable fee,
Kyna and I would love to see you join us at Catawba College’s Goodman
Gymnasium to sign up for one of three races. If you don’t want to run or
walk, just come out and support those who do. The 8K is open to runners
of all abilities. The 5K Health Run and Walk is open to anyone. The
course is much easier with only one real hill. Finally, the half-mile
fun run is open to anyone of any age or ability and it is held on the
Shuford Stadium track.
Registration is available at www.runsignup
through Saturday night, at the City Park Recreation building on
Saturday evening from 6-8 p.m. and at Catawba’s Goodman Gym from noon to
2 p.m. More information is available at www.salisburyrowanrunners.org or 704-310-6741.
Every 5K and 8K participant gets an incredible commemorative hoodie
and a chance at some awesome awards. But better yet is the chance to
know that you and a bunch of your friends and neighbors contributed to
something much bigger.
For
many years on Saturday night we would listen to Garrison Keillor on the radio.
He had a program called “The Prairie Home Companion.” It was a two-hour variety
show that we enjoyed. My favorite part was when he told a story about a
fictional town out on the prairie.
He always began
the story with, “It’s been a quiet week…” Then he would launch into all the
happenings in this fictional town. There was always humor and something going
on down at the church, or maybe the little cafe. The story was always clean,
filled with faith, and funny.
I guess I was
thinking about this because as I reflected back on my week, it feels like it
has been a quiet week. What I mean is that there haven’t been any major events.
That’s good. Some folks I know are dealing with big things. I know friends who
have lost loved ones and others who are fighting cancer. I know some who are fighting
the awful bug that is going around and others who are at the hospital.
I’ll
take my quiet week. Don’t get me wrong, I have been busy. I’ve been working on
my websites, working on developing a class that I hope to be able to teach, and
teaching my Chinese children on the internet. Sometimes, while it feels quiet,
it seems busy.
I
had to get my old vehicle running again; it was time for the inspection. I
tried jumping it, but the battery was too far gone. I got a new one and she
cranked right up. I drove it around for a while the other day; she is purring
like a kitten again.
There
were a few highlights in the week. I took my brother out for his birthday
lunch. I won’t say which one it was, but we had fun. It was great to laugh and
talk with my OLDER brother. On my way home, I stopped in at East Davidson. I
got to see several colleagues and talk with some friends. I miss seeing my work
friends on a daily basis.
Date
night this week was at a special restaurant in town. We went to say good-bye to
one of our favorite servers there. He got a new job and it was his last night. The
dinner was great, but so was the opportunity to wish him well.
I
had a great conversation with a former student this week. She is helping with
my website design. We got to talk and share about our lives, the ups and downs.
I love to hear how steady her faith is no matter what comes her way.
I
was blessed to spend time with the pastor and his family this week. Whether we
are going over the routine things about the church, sharing hopes and dreams,
talking through some challenges, or just laughing and cutting up in the office
after church on Sunday…I’ll say it again, I feel blessed. His family makes me
feel like I am a part of their family.
You
see, quiet weeks are still filled. No matter how busy or quiet a week might be,
spending time with God has to be a priority. With the nice weather we had
recently, I was spending time quietly on my porch or going for walks. I feel
lazy on cold, wet days, but just because it is difficult shouldn’t keep us from
our Father.
I
saw several pictures recently on Facebook of friends with their children asleep
on their chest. That’s the kind of closeness that God wants with us. Some of my
best conversations with the Lord occur with my head on my pillow. It’s quiet
and the distractions of life are removed. I can hear His voice and curl up in
His love. God wants to be that intimate with us. If He knows the number of
hairs on our heads, He is already intimately acquainted with us. We need to
open our hearts and become more aware of Him.
I
want to encourage you to draw close to God. Crawl up in His arms. He wants you
close to His heart. I know the importance of awe and respect for the Almighty.
I try to worship Him as exuberantly as King David did. He deserves it. But I
want that closeness so I can hear God call me His son and Jesus call me brother
and friend. God’s love is more profound than any of us can understand, but I
want to be immersed in it. I encourage you to run into your Heavenly Father’s
arms.
The
hand-mixed concrete sidewalk at the front of our past Edinburg house leads to a gently sloped bank that ends
at the road. At the top of the bank is a row of large boxwoods. One does not
need to be an archeologist to surmise that at one time the sidewalk met the old
road, which was of gravel, and the boxwoods were a border between it and the
front yard. But in the 1950’s the gravel road was modernized at the request of
its property owners and asphalt replaced the gravel; however, some owners were
not fully aware of what modernization was bringing, according to my friend
Gordon.
Mr.
Wolf, who farmed at the end of the country road next to the North Fork, had the
habit, according to his daughters, of stepping on his “lucky rock” each time he
would walk to town. His “rock” was a piece of limestone that protruded above
the gravel where the country road met Route 11. When the state paved the road,
his lucky rock was scrapped away, and the bed of the road no longer followed
the contours of the land. Small rises were cut out and dips were filled in to
make the road more level. So, the bank in front of our house was cut lower,
causing the sidewalk to lead to a small cliff, and other modern engineered
changes to the land altered the contour of Old Bethel Road. What had been a
sort of safe, old path for feet, hooves, wheels, and the occasional tire was
now a road of modern means.
Wendell
Berry describes a path as “…little more than a habit that comes with
knowledge of a place. It is a sort of ritual of familiarity. As a form, it is a form of contact with a
known landscape. It is not destructive. It is the perfect adaptation, through
experience and familiarity, of movement to place; it obeys the natural
contours; such obstacles as it meets it goes around.” The new road does not
follow the landscape, but altered it. The new road, which allows much higher
speed than the old one, so people may not see the landscape. The new road
covered Mr. Wolf’s lucky rock and other familiar objects created from
experience. However, many people will see the paved road as cleaner, safer, and
easier to maintain. Those are good reasons to pave a gravel road, but I want to
see the old and new road as a metaphor for our present culture.
Recently
I read an interview with a cancer survivor who decided to create a new line
sympathy cards. Emily McDowell wanted to create cards for people who “did not
know what to say” to a friend who was recovering from a serious illness such as
cancer or just going through one of life’s tough times. She received good
feedback concerning her honest cards, and she soon teamed with Kelsey Crowe, an
empathy scholar who founded an organization called Help EachOther Out where
she teaches people how to empathize in times of illness or difficult times. My
question: Have we become, as a culture, so void of valid emotions that we need
a book to guide us on how to feel for each other and how to express that
feeling?
I
argue that we need more paths in our lives. It seems to me that we have literally
and figuratively built so many roads in our lives that we do longer see the
landscape and have lost familiarity with its intricate features, such as a
projecting piece of limestone that becomes a “lucky stone.” We move so quickly
and are so busy that we have forgotten how to express sincere empathy for our
fellow humans. We have such a need for so called success that we pack the lives
of our children with too many activities thinking that more is better, but they
may not see the landscape of their childhoods. We even pave our walking trials
as if packed dirt is to be avoided at all costs.
Of
course roads fill a need in our modern world, but can we not create literal and
figurative paths in our lives that show us our landscapes while offering us a
chance to become familiar with our physical surroundings and neighbors. A path
will slow us down on occasion, and that will help us know how to relate better
with our surroundings.
Sleep is a time suck. If you multiplied the average recommended number of hours we should sleep in a day—eight for a typical adult—by the number of days in an average lifespan (78.8 years in the United States), that would amount to about 9,587.3 days. That’s one third of your life spent unconscious. From Get Pocket
I sneaked out early, before the family woke up. I was
going to beat the crowd to the mall at a very busy time of year. I had a
store in mind where I knew I could find a special gift for a special
three year old.
I got the best parking spot. I suppose that was a plus.
I wasn’t wearing my PJs — but some may have thought I was.
Nope. I was there for one item. In and out quickly. Get what I came for. Head home.
Being inconspicuous was my goal.
But there she was: THE GREETER.
She was definitely glad to see me.
“Are you ready to get a magical adventure started?” she asked.
I made eye contact, gave a ‘half smile’ and buried my head among some items for sale, as I whispered, “I’m just looking.”
She cheerfully pointed out a couple of things she thought I would
love, told me to enjoy my adventure, and to let her know if I needed
her.
I hurriedly grabbed the item I wanted and walked to the other side of the store.
There she was. Greeter #2. Excitedly smiling, she said sweetly, “Good morning! Oh, I love what you picked out!”
I stopped. I glanced back toward Greeter #1 on the other side of the
store. She waved. I then looked again at Greeter #2, who continued to
beam with excitement over what I had picked out to purchase.
I gave up. I smiled. I talked with them about the item I was getting for my granddaughter.
I had switched over to a good mood. It really was simple. It was a lot more fun, too.
Against the wishes of my ‘stony’ heart that morning, I had given in
and allowed myself to have a magical adventure – not because of the
stuff in my bag – but because of the greeters in the store.
I felt I left with more in my heart than I had in my shopping bag.
Later, I decided to ask if I could become a greeter at church. They
let me. Apparently, they were unaware of my poor attitude in the mall.
I love being a greeter. I say hello, have conversations, shake hands,
get hugs, meet new people, answer questions – and offer them a
peppermint – or two.
I have yet to ask, “Are you ready to get your Sunday morning spiritual adventure started?”
If I did, I think they would all smile and say, “Yes.”
The power of a smile and a hello.
You can use it anywhere.
It cheers people up.
It establishes good relationships.
It sets a positive tone.
It’s contagious.
This is the year to start taking happiness seriously. But how – and where do you find the time? Here are the tips and advice you need for a pleasure-filled year. An article from GetPocket
As of last weekend, you could rent an igloo through Airbnb in Calgary, Alberta. There’s no kitchen, bathroom or Wi-Fi. All you get is an outdoor firepit and a bunch of wood. From All Things Considered.