To Mom, with Love and Regrets

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By Ashlie Miller

If this weekend is difficult because Mom is gone, I write this for you:

Imagine writing a letter to Mom who has passed away – it may be pretty raw. For many, Mother’s Day can be a lonely, sad day. Memories of gathering for picnics or brunch, going shopping, or taking a special trip can be replaced by wondering what to do with the Sunday or weekend once Mom is no longer present.

Your mother may have died suddenly, or you may have had a long goodbye. While we may celebrate that our mothers are no longer living with pain, sometimes there is still a pain that lingers inside us. It’s something more than grief of lost things – the person, the relationship, the future memories to be missed. For some, there are things left unsaid, sorrow over past actions, or regrets about what we could not do or prevent.

Maybe your family didn’t say things that should be said, like “I love you,” “I’m proud of you,” “I’m sorry,” or “I forgive you.” There was no great animosity in the relationship; things went well, in general, but there was no real verbal declaration of true love.

Or perhaps, you live with your head down in shame and guilt over the lack of honor given to your mother during a season of rebellion. It may not have even been for most of your relationship, or perhaps it was. Her patience and prayers during your rebellion welcomed you back home, but now that she’s gone, you wish you could go back in time to undo what was done. Wasted years, we may call them.

Some children learn of their mom’s health issues too late in the game. Mom was trying to protect you from hurt, decisions, financial or other obligations. You believe you could have done more if you had known earlier. And you feel guilt, or maybe even anger.

“Does she know how I feel? Does she know I have regrets? Does she know I am sorry?” If we could write a letter to her, maybe it would be filled with things like that. But what would she say? I cannot speak for all mothers, but for the Christian mother, here are two things we know are true:

Firstly, God Himself has wiped away all of Mom’s tears. The sorrows she carried on earth are healed perfectly! (See Revelation 7:17 and 21:4). Have you had seasons where you get past hurt or manage it in the moment? That is only a foretaste of the grace God bestows upon His beloved in eternity – and when He wipes away tears, He does so completely and perfectly.

Secondly, Mom is not remembering any of the former earthly things – any losses, any hurts, but even the wins and gains all fade when before the presence of God (see Isaiah 65:17). That comforts my heart! She is so overwhelmed before her Maker, Savior, and Sustainer that everything pales in comparison. She could not remember even if she wanted to.

On this Mother’s Day weekend, for those without Mom, remember these truths and live in the light of love and forgiveness. If your mom is still here, do the best that you can, considering the relationship, to let her know you love her.

Ashlie Miller’s mom is in heaven, but with five children of her own, Mother’s Day is still sweet. You may email her at mrs.ashliemiller@gmail.com.

People Need the Lord

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By Doug Creamer

People Need the Lord

            When I walk out to my garden I can’t believe how great it looks this year. I don’t have everything in, but what’s in is doing well. One thing I am doing differently this year is leaving the leaves from last fall on the beds and just pushing them back to plant the vegetables. My hope is that the leaves will keep the weeds down.

            After a very warm April, I am enjoying the cooler start to May. The long-term forecast is suggesting that we might enjoy a cooler than average May before a hot summer kicks off. It makes for nice gardening and walking weather. I know the hot weather is on the way, but I am going to enjoy the relatively nice weather for now.

            I helped my Mom plant some vegetables and flowers last week. We had fun working in her backyard. My brother and I created some raised beds for her that we planted with vegetables. We enjoyed getting our hands in the dirt and planting things. I think I got my love of gardening from my Mom. She has always loved growing flowers and vegetables.

            While I enjoy vegetable gardening immensely, I appreciate the beauty of flowers and the awakening of spring each year. Growing vegetables and flowers stirs me up spiritually. I love seeing people grow spiritually. I guess that is why I love teaching Sunday school.

            I did a three-week series in our Sunday school class about sowing seeds in various types of soil. I encouraged my class to remember the correlation between gardening and spiritual growth. We need to prepare hearts to hear the gospel message so they can receive the seeds of faith that will grow and produce a harvest.

            We know that God’s Word is the seed from the parable of the sower. God’s seed is alive and active and ready to produce a harvest if it lands in good soil. People’s hearts are in all kinds of conditions. Some are as hard as concrete. They won’t hear anything from God. Others have some soil mixed with all kinds of hard places that will keep the seeds from growing. Others have too many cares choking out whatever God wants to do in their lives. Finally, we have those whose hearts are ready to receive God’s Word and produce a harvest for Him.

            Every person needs the Lord no matter what the condition of their heart. We all have pain in our lives and we need God’s healing. The problem is that people’s hearts are in different places. Part of our job is to pray and ask God to guide us in helping people receive Him.

            Sometimes we have to break up the hard soil, remove rocks, and pull weeds to help prepare the hearts that are far from God. We also have to be patient and allow God to work. We want to plant a seed today and go harvest a crop tomorrow. It doesn’t work that way. We have to give the Holy Spirit time and space to work. That’s why it is critical for us to be sensitive to God’s Spirit as we reach out to others. We don’t know where they are or how receptive their hearts are to the Lord.

            We all know people who are distant from God. Hurting and broken people are all around us. People need the Lord. Our hearts need to be tender towards the people and sensitive to hear God. What He wants us to do is different for each person. Everyone can pray for those who are far from God. Our prayers make a big difference and can change circumstances. People who need the Lord need us to be sensitive, available, tender, and compassionate. People will open their hearts if they know that we love them just like God loves them.

            I want to encourage you to pray for those in your life who need to open their hearts to God. Pray that God will work on their soil and prepare a place for His Word and love to land. Ask God what your role is in that process. How can He use you to help draw the person closer? Remember God is patient with each one of us and that it is His Spirit that draws a person into a relationship with the Father and Jesus. Often He will use us, but we need to be humble and available. People need the Lord and God will use you to help plant the seeds of love and hope in the hearts of those who don’t know Him.

Contact Doug Creamer at PO Box 777, Faith, NC 28041or doug@dougcreamer.com

Our God Given Authority

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By Ed Traut

Luke 10:19 I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you.

  • The devil has worked very hard to withhold understanding from us; that we have complete authority over him.
  • This authority is given purely by faith in Jesus and because He said so.
  • We can put into reality and action that the enemy can not harm us in any way.

Prayer:  Lord, I do confess and believe these words that I have authority over the enemy and all the attacks of the enemy and that by Your command he has to obey and submit and be yielded to the authority that You have given me.  Help me Lord to exercise it.  Holy Spirit direct me I pray in Jesus name.  Amen.


Ed Traut
Prophetic Life

Bible Teachers Run a 5K

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By David Freeze

Bible Teachers 5K Is a Big Success!

      The WRBTA 5K and Fun Run on April 18th in Cleveland was even better than expected! Race director Deb Gusler said, “Planning and preparations for this year’s race began shortly after last year’s event. We created a 5K board this year which made the planning process more organized and efficient. Each year, we take time to evaluate what worked well and explore new ways to enhance the overall race experience.”

     More than 560 runners registered for the races and 466 finished. Overall winner was Cody McNeely with a time of 20 minutes and one second. He was followed by Isaac McLauglin in 20:12 and David Shields with 21:30. Top female was Colette Conway with a time of 23:18. Second was Jessica King in 23:30 and third went to Dilsa Calderon in 24:40. Tops in the fun run was Rames Morris. By my memory, this is the largest Rowan County race in the last decade.

       Gusler continued, “Some of the biggest highlights of preparing for the race are reaching out to sponsors and sharing the impact that WRBTA has for our public school Bible classes. It’s always encouraging to see how willing our community is to support what we’re doing. Another highlight is the excitement in our schools. Activities like our 5K pep rally help students understand what the race is all about, and seeing their energy and enthusiasm makes all the hard work leading up to trace day even more meaningful.”

      There are so many people who deserve credit that Gusler didn’t want to name them for fear of leaving someone out. She said, “This event is truly a community effort. From our generous sponsors to the participants, volunteers, and the support of our local fire and police departments, every single person plays an important role. It’s the coming together of all these groups that makes the WRBTA 5K such a successful event each year. I am happy to share that the race raised $52,000.”

       One of the biggest highlights of race day was the spectacular fun run. With 60 entries and most of them kids, the finish was hectic and simply added to the feeling of positive energy all around. Gusler closed by saying, “There was excitement everywhere! From seeing the kids eager to participate in the fun run to celebrating runners as they finished and received their medals. It was a great day! We heard first-time participants say they were already excited to come back next year. The planning process has begun. I’ve taken notes and feedback from volunteers and participants and am thinking through ideas for next year’s race. It’s really something that stays on my mind year-round, because we’re always looking for ways to make our race better!”

      May has four SRR events and races and all are interesting! First up is the Girls on the Run 5K on May 2nd. This isn’t in fact a race at all for most participants, but a celebration of the end of the GOTR spring session.

      Next up is the China Grove Challenge on May 8th, a special Friday evening on Main Street for runners, walkers and residents. There is a Tot Trot run for small kids, a half-mile fun run for older kids and the big event, a 5K dash out and back on Main Street.

      On May 16th, the Ed Dupree 5K takes place at East Rowan High School. Dupree was a well-known runner, coach, sportswriter and a popular advocate of all things exercise. He inspired me to run across North Caroline during the winter of 2018. The race benefits Hospice and the Ed Dupree Scholarship program.

     And for the final race of a very busy month, May 23rd is the Chillin’ to the Bare Bones 5K at Overton Elementary School. Proceeds go to Relay for Life.

     Still one more event in May is the Special Olympics Torch Run, this year on Friday May 7th and open to any runner capable of 12-minute miles on a 5-mile course. This isn’t a race either, but a wonderful celebration that serves as a fundraiser for this program. Cost is $25. Contact Adam Bouk at abouk@salisburync.gov for entry.

    More information on all these events can be found at www.salisburyrowanrunners.org

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