Shoes, Shoes, & More Shoes

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By David Freeze

Shoes, shoes and more shoes!

   I have been fortunate to lead the Walk Club at Rowan Helping Ministries for five years now. Eight weeks in the spring and eight more in the fall are when we offer positive information about healthful walking. The first part of each weekly meeting provides participants with a handout and discussion, and then we head outside to walk together on a repetitive half mile loop. We walk and talk and often the RHM participants share about their life journey. I love this part and look forward to it each week.

   In the spring class just finished, we had several unique individuals. One man played YMCA basketball as a child on a team I coached about 29 years ago. Another was a municipal water expert who was down on his luck, but was hired by a nearby city and is reportedly doing very well. Another was an intriguing young woman with a big personality who spent part of her life in Jamaica after being born in Springfield, Mass. Her name is Shanariah Simpson, a 23 year old who didn’t have good walking shoes.

    One week, I spent most of a two mile walk following Shanariah. I noticed that her shoes appeared to be very uncomfortable. On the last lap of the walk, I asked, “Would you like for me to see if I can find you a good pair of used running shoes?” Shenariah replied, “I would certainly appreciate that, but my feet are very small and you’ll probably have a hard time finding them.”

     The runners club will have over 30 races this year and we often collect used shoes from participants and club members at those races. Plus several active club members like Joel Whittington and Connie Hoffner have ways of finding large numbers of shoes.

      Shanariah mentioned that she needed a women’s size 6 or 6 ½ and said. “I have a small foot, and it is hard to find my size.” I knew right away who to ask. Adalie Harrison has recently run her first marathon and has small feet too. I knew that she was doing big mileage and would have some recently retired shoes. Those shoes would have lots more walking miles in them. I asked, and Adalie replied, “I have two good pairs and Shanariah is welcome to them.”

     These two pairs of shoes were part of over 300 pairs of shoes and sandals already donated to RHM by club members and race participants for 2026. Regular serious runners get a new pair every 400-500 miles and casual runners get them often too because they want to try the latest and greatest in shoe trends.

    The best part of the shoe connection happened on Wednesday afternoon.  Shanariah and Adalie met for the first time amid some amazing similarities. Both are 23, wear the same size of shoe, and were local athletes in high school. Shanariah did track and basketball at West Rowan High and Adalie did basketball, cross country and track, as well as soccer at East. Shanariah also attended Early College with a GPA of 3.6, good enough for the Crosby Scholars and National Honor Society

    The focus was on Shanariah. After Springfield, she lived for nine months in Kinston, Jamaica. Shanariah ended up in foster care but her adoptive mother eventually took her back to Salisbury. She is now living at Rowan Helping Ministries and took our walking class, then walked our Chillin’ to the Bare Bones 5K. Shanariah told Adalie that her “new to her” shoes feel like walking on clouds.

     Besides the walking club, Shanariah likes many things about her time at RHM. She takes the “New Tomorrows” classes managed by Keven Yates, and her favorite is the Health and Hope class which teaches her how to advocate for herself. The great meals in Jeannie’s Kitchen are a favorite too, especially when the Harmony Believers prepare supper for the residents. Shanariah said, “I love how they bring fresh things from their gardens, but I admit to being partial to their desserts even with a lot of sugar.”

    Shanariah is currently enjoying the art class in a big way, but she said, “I will be surprised if someone buys any of my work!”

    Shanariah could see herself working at Rowan Helping Ministries as a certified peer support specialist or case manager. She said, “Yes, I would be happy to end up right back here. I just want to help people just as the current staff is helping me.”

    With that, SRR keeps collecting used running shoes and they are needed. Drop them off with us at a race or at the receiving dock for RHM. Our next race is the Shiloh Run for Missions 5K/ Fun Run in Faith on June 27th.  Look for it and other events at www.salisburyrowanrunners.org

Poor Kevin

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By Lynna Clark

Poor Kevin. He is not well. See him leaning over on the bird bath? He’s been a little droopy lately, so I stood him back up. While he nodded his head in approval, a wasp popped me on the leg. That’s okay. It was a small price to pay to help a friend.

Hannah and I walked by Kevin a few days later and he had fallen all the way over. Bless his heart. Those dang squirrels must’ve knocked him on his face again. Hannah reached down to lift him back up when a whole swarm of wasps flew out. They popped her good! Turns out Kevin had a secret.

Deep inside his coconut heart was a large wasp nest. Kevin was full of trouble.

Quite a few years back I tried to help a lady who was going through a terrible time. She lashed out so hatefully that I had to wonder what brought on her wrath. The pastor where I worked observed the ruckus and said these wise words:

“Hurting people often hurt others.”

It didn’t make me feel any better. Crazy woman, now we both hurt. What’s up with your bad self? But I started noticing a pattern.

My pastor friend was right. Those who hurt others are usually hiding a great deal of pain themselves.

But I’ve also found the opposite to be true. Some of the sweetest comfort I’ve ever received has been from those who’ve experienced great pain or loss.

Maybe it’s about how we process our suffering.

An old saying that bears repeating is this.

“Trials will either make us bitter or better.”

You’ll be happy to know that Kevin is better. His demons were exorcised with a large can of wasp spray. Thanks David.

Now Kevin is back to nodding his head and happily making those who pass his way smile again.

Change Your Mind

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Max Lucado tells us how to change our lives by changing our minds. God wants our minds to work for us not against us. Listen as Max explains how you can tame your thoughts.

Re-creating Through Recreation

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By Ashlie Miller

“Have a great summer!” If you dig up an old school yearbook, someone at some point likely wrote that in the front or end pages of yours. Although it’s in the middle of the year, summer comes at a closure and seasonal “goodbye” for many people. We wish a “great summer” in a way that we do not proclaim any other season, except perhaps the Christmas holiday. While each season has its gift, does any season provide as much time for recreation, leisure, and renewal?

Swimming, running, and pickleball, hiking and camping in the great outdoors, attending games, outdoor concerts, movies in the park, grilling at the neighbor’s (Northern or Cali transplants, do not call this a barbecue, please), block parties, summer-themed festivals, and even the quieter hobbies of bird watching and gardening all bid us outside. Or maybe you escape the humidity and enjoy the air conditioning by catching up on puzzles, watching Christmas movies in July, completing the work-in-progress hobby or task, or reading.

Many also find a fire reignited, not just by sitting around a campfire and sharing stories and thoughts, but perhaps as students attending a camp or children at a Vacation Bible School. I remember the days of hot camp meetings as choirs joined together and preachers preached under a large tent over a sawdust-laden ground. 

Attendees of VBS, youth camps, and seasonal church meetings often leave with a sense of renewal, rededication, or recommitment to what (or Who) matters most. 

Even work can seem less like the exhausting tedium of toil in this season for some (with apologies to landscapers and road-workers). Extended hours of daylight can provide more opportunities for recreation after hours. 

The season can be a life-giving recharge before schedules for many resume or take an upswing in September. Recreation lives up to the name of RE-creating life and vibrancy within us.

Summer often takes us back to the memory of Eden – the garden of the dawn of the ages that held such promise, but was spoiled by mankind’s will, desire, and lack of contentment, trust, and obedience. The place of walking in intimate communion with God. 

We look to re-create such things through moments of leisure. Maybe if we spend enough time appreciating nature, we will learn something about ourselves or something greater beyond ourselves, if such things exist. Perhaps if we make time to connect with our neighbors, friends, or community, a hole of deep communion will be filled. If we are lucky, maybe some focused solitude on a worthwhile project will make work feel purposeful, beautiful, and enjoyable for once. But summer will end, and there may still be desires unsatisfied. C.S. Lewis famously wrote, “If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world.”

Let’s not pretend that we can recreate Eden or heaven on earth through our recreation this summer, but if such pleasures and pauses bring a greater awareness of creation, our Creator, and a need to return to such things, we truly can “have a great summer!”

In a Moment, Everything Changes

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By Doug Creamer

In a Moment, Everything Changes

            You know what I am talking about…life is going along at a normal pace. There are the daily hiccups, the usual hassles, the slow drivers, and that crazy person at work. You are home and glad to be in your refuge. Then your phone rings and everything changes…

            Last week in Salisbury at an apartment complex everything was fine one moment and then the next moment a fire broke out, leaving a number of families homeless. One moment you are doing something normal and routine like eating dinner or maybe watching TV with your family and then something happens.

            Most of us can remember a time when life was normal and then our phone rang. We answer and receive news we don’t want to hear. There has been an accident and a loved one is in the hospital. I received a text like that last evening. My mom fell and went to the ER. It leaves us feeling helpless. We pray and watch the clock. I’ve been at the ER with people before; time moves slowly while you are waiting for answers. You sit. You pace. News comes slowly.

            In our case, my Mom waited a long time before they sent her home. She should make a full recovery. The news is not always that good for some folks. For some, the news goes from bad to worse. A hospital stay is followed by a long recovery, or maybe the loved one continues to decline. That phone call or text that interrupted your normal day changed everything.

            Phone calls and texts don’t always bring bad news. Sometimes our lives change for the better. Your child calls to tell you that they are engaged and you burst at the seams for joy. The phone rings and you find out that you are a grandparent! You find out that your child got a big promotion at work. Maybe you are the one spreading good news and a family celebration ensues. You got the dream beach house and you couldn’t be happier. These are moments when we welcome life’s changes with open arms. We are excited and filled with joy and can’t wait to let the world know our great news.

            Whether your phone call or text was bad or good your world changed in a moment. One moment everything seems normal and then the next moment everything changes. Your world is different and it may never return to the normal that you used to know. Your life has changed for the better, or maybe for worse.

            I believe that the idea that everything can change in a moment needs to be carried with us when we go to prayer. We need to enter God’s presence knowing that everything can and might change in just one moment. I believe that God is still in the healing business. I believe and have seen with my own eyes the Lord touch and bring healing. Everything changes in a moment.

            I believe that God is still in the business of changing lives. He can take a broken sinner and restore them. He can take impossible situations and make them right again. He can heal broken relationships. He can deliver a person who is addicted. He can set people free from brokenness, bitterness, and anger. He can heal someone struggling with anxiety or depression. In a moment He can change everything!

            I believe that nothing is impossible with God. He can change financial situations. In the Bible, one day Joseph is sleeping in a dungeon and the next he is second in command to Pharaoh and sleeping in a palace. God rescued Daniel from hungry lions. He saved three men who refused to bow to an idol from burning in a fiery furnace. Nothing is too difficult for Him. No one has strayed too far from His love. In a moment, everything can change!

            I want to encourage you to believe in a God who still does impossible things. He sees you and He knows everything about you…even the number of hairs on your head. He loves you and is pursuing you, wanting your heart and a deeper more intimate relationship with YOU! There is nothing too difficult for Him. There is no sin He won’t forgive. There is no pain He can’t heal. There is nothing you are worried about that He can’t fix. He can do it in a moment or sometimes He moves more slowly, building your faith and trust in Him along the way. Bring your situation to Him because I still believe that in a moment everything can change!

Contact Doug Creamer at PO Box 777, Faith, NC 28041or doug@dougcreamer.com

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