Tis the Season

by   December 31, 2025 with No Comments

By Lynna Clark

I have a framed sign in my house that I love. It has held true for many years. Come to think of it, I probably should dust that thing. I love it even more especially now. It simply says, “He is faithful in every season.”

Nearly everything in my life changed the day I lost David. No longer do I hang the stockings while thinking of how to get the Zero candy bars he loved so much. In fact, for the first time ever, there was no reason to hang stockings. He sure isn’t out hunting down all the chocolate covered pretzels he can find for me. Last year I found the last bag in the pantry in April. Praise God for airtight packaging! What a treat. I even shared them with him though his appetite was already failing.

Thankfully we stopped putting up a Christmas tree several years back. We decided long ago we’d need that space for people instead. Last Christmas he bought me an obelisk; a pretty wooden pyramid structure that fits well in the flowerbed by the door. The kids twisted bright colored bulbs around it and it works just fine in lieu of a tree. And David used to grill steaks on Christmas Eve for the whole family. This year Shane is smoking pork in his new smoker. Just another sign of the new season. David also used to make a foot tub of Scrabble as his mother would say. I found his recipe for Chex Mix the other day and hope to do the same. But there’s no way it will be as good as his. He’d also make white chocolate clusters with pretzels then give me the speech about how he couldn’t get real white chocolate anymore, only the candy coating. Our Christmas experience was always enhanced by the speech. I won’t hear it this year, but it’s okay. I’ve got it memorized. His other Christmas speech involved something about not touching my gifts from him until Christmas morning. I’ve got it memorized too but this year it doesn’t apply.

The point is I’m in a new season. It truly feels like everything has changed. I’ve never in my life lived alone. It’s so weird. I think of things I need to ask him, then realize… he’s not here to tell me the guy’s name who does the Salsa in the endzone. I wonder about our year-end offering that we used to pray about and always, without fail, came up with the same number. I reach for him at night, but he is not there. The light I left on for him in the bathroom stays on all night just so I feel like he’ll be to bed soon. Everything has changed.

Except this.

The Lord is faithful in every season. As the old hymn says, “Thou changest not, Thy compassions they fail not. Great is Thy faithfulness!” His mercies are new every single morning. For many years I’ve enjoyed the fact that the Lord gives so abundantly. Now He has taken away. Dare I say it? Yes I will. For He is ALWAYS faithful!

“He gives and takes away. Blessed be the Name of the Lord.”

Last year.

PS: If you are grieving this Christmas, try reading A Decembered Grief by Harold Ivan Smith. My kind friend Karen gave me a copy and it has been such a help. Also, the verses I quoted above are found in Lamentations 3:23, Hebrews 13:8, and Job 1:21. The angels called Him Emmanuel, because He is with us, no matter how alone we feel.

The Year That Didn’t go as Planned

by   December 28, 2025 with No Comments

By Ashlie Miller

Looking back at a year can be bittersweet, holding regrets and disappointment. We enter January with anticipation of a new start, a list of goals, and maybe even a punch list. Twelve months later, these goals are buried deep in our smartphone notes and reminders or literally under piles of papers. Where did I put that notebook I bought to keep a list and manage goals?

We did not schedule something with those friends we saw during the holidays of 2024 and longed to reconnect with this year. The project(s) around the house that we knew would increase the resale value or improve our daily life were neglected or too expensive because other things popped up. The decluttering plan we had, along with the new organizers for the closet or attic, was abandoned and (let’s be honest) is also probably buried under more clutter. Other life-giving goals for our health are still on a checklist to schedule, for maybe the 4th year in a row, and we know we aren’t getting any younger. The new hobby we wanted to attempt was trickier than we thought, and scrolling on the phone was far easier. All things that did not happen. It is enough to make one think, “Did another wasted year go by?”

But, for your consideration, what things did not happen in your life that actually contributed to a better year? What things did you fear, catastrophize, and become anxious about that did not end up nearly as you anticipated – an encounter, a confrontation, an interview? Were there events that you missed, sadly, because of sickness or other cancellations, that either gave you some much-needed rest time or enabled you to enjoy something else? Did any relationships change as perhaps children move out, friends move away, or even the passing of a loved one that caused you to reinvest in family or friendships differently?

Then there are things that took us down different journeys or kept us from other endeavors. Maybe you went to the doctor for one thing, but it led to a discovery that otherwise would not have been immediately recognized. You did not want bad news; you wanted good health, but this discovery is helping you get to that path of wellness. Or perhaps you remember the day you just couldn’t get it all together before you headed out the door to your destination. One thing after another was going wrong; things were misplaced, you spilled hot coffee, and the baby, of course, had a blowout as you were putting him into his car seat. But as you hit the highway or made your way across the intersection, you looked to the side of the road and saw the car that could have easily been yours smashed and ruined. Maybe you passionately longed for a reassignment at your job because the other option looked like it checked all the boxes, but you were passed over for it. Come to find out, that option would have been the wrong option for you. God’s “no” was for your good.

Yes, counting our blessings is a wonderful way to cap off the year. Maybe we get stuck on finding positives. When we struggle to think of the things we are thankful for in a difficult year, maybe a lean year, we can likely look back at the things that did not happen. They were not losses. They were not necessarily negatives. They were withholdings that brought peace, stillness, refocus, contentment, protection, and wellness. Glory be to God!

Ashlie Miller lives in Concord, NC with her biggest blessings. You may share yours with her at mrs.ashliemiller@gmail.com.

Preparing for the New Year

by   December 27, 2025 with No Comments

By Doug Creamer

Preparing for the New Year

            The packages have been unwrapped. The ribbons and bows are now toys for the cat and dog. We’ve eaten the food that we so anxiously anticipated. The kids are off playing with their new toys. We are off to the stores once again with our returns to exchange. We are shopping online with our new gift cards.

            This is the week between Christmas and New Year’s Day. Some can slow down while others have to make trips to grandma’s or maybe the in-laws’. So, the Christmas celebration may continue, but hopefully with a little less stress. There is less rushing around and maybe more time to enjoy…all of it; the lights, family, friends, music, food, the gifts we anticipated, and the down time away from it all.

            Unless you are in retail, this is a slow week. We can take a breath and enjoy the things we so eagerly anticipated. Leftovers taste great with a whole lot less work. The tasty pies, cakes, and cookies are there for the enjoyment. We worked hard to get here, now let’s soak it in. Don’t rush, just amble along…

            Allow your mind to reflect on the year that is quickly coming to an end. There have been some good moments and some hard ones. There have been joys and sorrows. There have been victories and moments of defeat. Allow the joys of the good moments to flood your soul. Savor them. Revel in those special memories.

            For the other moments, let’s imagine three buckets. The first, we’ll call loss. These are the memories of lost loved ones, jobs, relationships, etc. These memories come with pain and must be treated delicately. You must cherish the good, especially the people in your life. Hold those memories dear to your heart and allow grief to run its course. Give yourself permission and time to walk through the losses, but do not allow them to control you or keep you from moving forward…one step at a time, one day at a time.

            The second bucket we will call regrets. These are disappointments and we all have them. We might have disappointments over things that did or did not happen. These cause our hearts to be heavy. The deep longing over what you missed or the pain over what happened that you wish hadn’t. This bucket is extremely heavy and a burden that God does not want you to carry into the New Year. We must seek forgiveness from God and then we must agree with Him that we are forgiven, drop the bucket, and move forward into the future.

            The third bucket is our sins and failures. We all sin, from the nicest person to the vilest person you know…we are all sinners. We fail to meet God’s standard of holiness. We can try to always make the right choice and do the right thing, but we are going to fail and fall short of perfection. We should strive to keep our sin bucket empty by repenting and turning from those sins that so easily entangle us. God provided a way and He wants us to ask for and receive forgiveness for our sins. Then we can walk into this New Year that is set before us with clean hands and a pure heart.

            We are cleansed from sin, released from regrets, and have savored the special memories. Now we are ready to enter a new year and a new adventure with God. We know the year will come with challenges and opportunities. We know there will good moments to savor and hard ones to persevere. We can be assured that God will walk with us through the new year. We know it will require faith in our God, who always comes to our aid. We must stir up hope because we know He has made good plans for our lives. Why do we know that? He loves us beyond words and our understanding.

            I want to encourage you to enter the new year without carrying the three buckets, but rather with faith, hope, and love. God sees you and knows you intimately. He is working in your life to mold you into the image of Jesus so you can be a light and hope to those in your life. He has great things planned for you. There will be challenges, but He has made you an overcomer. You are so greatly loved by God AND He likes you too! This is going to be a great year for you and me as we walk in faith, hope, and His unrelenting love. Happy 2026!

Contact Doug Creamer at PO Box 777, Faith, NC 28041or doug@dougcreamer.com

Salvation is REAL

by   December 26, 2025 with No Comments

By Ed Traut

2 Thessalonians 1:8 He will punish those who do not know God and do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus.

  • Certainly there is an end coming – the whole world agrees.
  • Those that do not accept this wonderful salvation gospel, which is a simple gift, will be punished and receive God’s judgement for it.
  • If we don’t know Him through salvation and relationship, then we are lost.  It is a free gift.  All are welcome.  

Prayer:  Lord, I thank You for saving my soul and showing me and my household grace.  I ask You to help me to reach out to the lost and not keep this message to myself, that they may have a chance, and hear and turn and get to know You I pray.  Amen.
 

Ed Traut
Prophetic Life

Kara Crotts Shines

by   December 25, 2025 with No Comments

By David Freeze

Kara Crotts Shines as Rowan’s Best Female Runner

    Kara Crotts first found running at 8 years old when she participated in “Girls on the Run” from third grade to fifth grade. Kara continued in Southeasr Middle School’s track program. She’s still friends with many of the girls she met through these programs.

   Kara tried other sports like volleyball, horseback riding, and soccer but running was the only thing she stuck with. Kara said, “I think running works for me because it requires me to be mentally and physically tough. Running teaches me to stay disciplined and calm during hard moments. My best moment in running was the Rowan County Championship meet this year because I won individually and my team won. I looked forward to this meet all season and knew it would be tough considering the competition. It made me feel that all the hard work that I put in had paid off.”

    Kara’s family includes her mom and dad, Tracy and Jody Crotts. Neither parent were athletes, but they have always been supportive of Kara’s sport and have never missed an event. When not running, Kara enjoys hanging out with friends and family, trying new things, listening to music and watching movies.

     By running year-round with cross country, indoor track, and outdoor track, Kara stays sharp. She said, “My favorite season is indoor track. I enjoy attending bigger meets where the competition is fierce. My mileage is normally around 35-38 miles a week and goes up to 40 on weeks I do not have races. When training the week of a meet, my mileage will slightly decrease so I am ‘fresher’ on race day.”

   During the off-season, Kara does most of her run’s solo, but the team will meet for practice several days a week. Kara said, “I enjoy running alone to clear my mind, but I always have a fun time when running with my teammates. I believe there should be a good balance between the two.”

    Often the best high school runners don’t compete with adult runners in area races. Why they don’t is a column for another day. This was Kara’s third year in a row taking part in the Butterball 5K. She said, “It is a fantastic way to start my Thanksgiving morning. I convinced a few of my current teammates to sign up the night before and saw a former teammate there. I had just come off a week break post cross country season, so I was feeling a little rusty. Local 5K’s are different from cross country meets, there is such a wide range of ages. Cross country meets are on grass and in the woods, you never know what kind of surface to expect. I enjoy doing local 5K’s and would like to do more during the off-season.”

   Dad Jody Crotts said, “Winter Flight 2024 is when we really noticed how Kara had evolved as a runner.  We had never watched her warmup before a race. She warmed up under the bleachers at Shuford Stadium, and we were amazed at the combination of grace and strength with her lunges, kicks and stretches. Kara came to compete and it showed.  She finished 7th, second female overall, and won her age group.” 

   As Rowan’s high school female runner of the year, Kara continued, “I bring my competitiveness in other components of my life besides running. I strive to push myself because I want to excel at whatever I am doing. I know that by me doing the absolute bare minimum, I will not carry out my goals. I find myself being competitive in academics and in personal growth. I would describe myself as hardworking and optimistic and am willing to put in the work and always give my best, even when I am not feeling 100%. I approach things with a positive mindset by only worrying about what is in my control, this helps me stay motivated. I’m considering adding cross-training in the future.”

   Kara’s immediate goal is to excel in indoor track, where she hopes to advance to the NCHSAA 5A state championships. Kara said, “For the rest of my high school career, I just want to keep progressing and see where it takes me. Running is something I want to pursue throughout my life, and I could definitely see myself running in college.”

    Next Saturday, we have SRR’s own Santa Run 5K and Fun Run hosted by the Millbridge Ruritans across from Sloan Park. Bigfoot sightings are common in that area!

Look for the Santa Run and other upcoming events at www.salisburyrowanrunners.org

Gotta Run: Kara Crotts shines as Rowan’s best female runner
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