By Ashlie Miller
What is on your honey-do list? In our area, keeping heat out or in, depending on the season, is usually on the checklist. Last year, on the honey-do list, my husband and sons worked on replacing the seal around our front door to better prevent drafts (and insects) from coming in. While it does seal very well, we must intentionally pull the door completely when shutting. Careless closing results in a door left ajar.
One morning in late fall, my son left for his welding class early. I was occupying my usual morning spot on the couch, enjoying some quiet time reading. Early as it was, I had no need to go towards that door, which is by the staircase leading to the children’s rooms, for about an hour. Once I did, however, I noticed a draft and light coming from the door. Eek! Thankfully, it was not standing wide open; no birds flew in. But it was an open door – one I assumed would be closed.
Later, I thought about how often we pass open doors in people’s lives. As a Christian, my eyes and heart should regularly think about open hearts for the gospel – that is, to be evangelistic. My husband often reminds the congregation at church to pray for God to open our eyes to such open doors and then to open our mouths to share. It is easy to assume that people who are currently closed to discussing the hope we have in Jesus will always be closed to such discussions. Sometimes they are. Sometimes, a heart is so hardened that its door is vaulted and sealed with a “no trespassing/no soliciting” sign on the door. Those are very sad and discouraging relationships.
However, sometimes, doors that were once thought to be irrevocably closed become ajar, much like my front door. Often, a tragedy or deep sense of dismay cracks the door of a heart, allowing a little light to trickle in. While we may normally pass by a literal door like that and close it, assuming it is not an invitation for us to enter, doors ajar in hearts are another matter. A watchful eye may be gazing through the crack with a heart silently begging for someone to walk by and notice. We cautiously push the door slightly wider, beckoning them to join us or let us in.
People, like nature, go through seasons regularly. What is true and steady in a person’s life in one month may vastly differ in three months. As one who can be shy to warm up to invitations, I have also learned that a firm no does not necessarily mean a final no. Growing up, I often waited on a sideline or against a wall to assess situations and people before jumping in.
We will undoubtedly see such hearts come to church on Resurrection Day in a few weeks, along with many other “Chreasters” (those who only visit the church on Christmas and Easter). We can ignore them, say, “See you next holiday!” or engage them in a relationship. Ask them how life has been, and look into their eyes to see if there is a longing for something more. Has a door been left slightly opened?
Maybe seasons in life have you longing for something more; perhaps you have questions about that one thing you vowed you would never consider. You may not have intentionally left a door open, but could circumstances have been divinely aligned to bring you to another point in life? Are you willing to open that door wider to a relationship with the Creator and Savior?
