Having a Moment?

by   March 17, 2025 with No Comments

By Ann Farabee

Having a moment?

It is that split second in time when you remember something or someone that sweeps your daily thoughts away, and replaces them with the emotions that one feels of something that was long ago or something that is a moment that will never really go away. 

I call it having a moment.

I call it having a memory.

When my son was three years old, we somehow left after a week at the beach without bringing Curious George back home with us. We are certain we accidentally left him sleeping in the bed. Yes, the stuffed monkey did not return. Phone calls to the motel we had stayed at brought no results.

 Curious George was gone forever. We bought another, but the outfit had slightly changed, and there was no fooling my little boy. We could have placed 50 stuffed animals on his bed, but he only would have wanted HIS Curious George.

Poor us. My child could not sleep without Curious George; therefore it took both parents in the bed with him to make sleep possible.  As many are aware, three in a bed can get a bit tight.

Eventually, after a lengthy period of grief and trying out several similar Curious George’s that just were NOT the same, I suppose our lives returned to normalcy. 

Somewhat. Except sometimes – I still have a moment.

Silly, right? My child slept cuddling with George every night.

There was nothing silly about it.

Thankfully, the story ended with us finding a very very very similar Curious George who arrived in the mail for him from the motel?? (Wink. Wink.) More than thirty years later, my son told me that he did not figure out at first that it was not the original George until later when became an adult.

Family beach trip. Stuffed animal goes missing. Yes, I began writing about this experience after having a ‘moment’ where I remembered going through it with my family as we grieved the loss and celebrated the fake recovery and joy of Curious George coming home.

A few years later, I noticed Curious George was no longer in my son’s bed each morning, and one day I realized George had gone to live in the closet.

Even though Curious George 2 replaced Curious George 1 – it was never the same. Curious George 2 never slept in the bed, but stayed 24 hours a day on the toy shelf.

Then later, he chose to go live in the attic.

Or perhaps that decision was made while my son was at school – and we, as parents, had noticed George no longer was given any attention.

That is the end of the story.

Everyone forgot about it.

Well – sort of.

Except for when I have a moment.

God, my Creator, brings moments and memories to my mind for many reasons, some of which are for my pleasure. I can envision my little boy holding Curious George in his arms, walking around the house with him, laying Curious George on his pillow beside him each night as he prayed for George, for me, and for others. Any moment that brings a memory like that to your mind is a gift from God.

Now – years later – I still have my moments.

Yes, Curious George is rarely in those moments.

But – he sure was today as I wrote these words.

I was thankful.

I believe sleep came easier for my young child those nights with Curious George beside him.

I believe I slept better those nights, too.

The most beautiful things in life are not just things –

They are also moments and memories.

Our moments and memories are like a diary we carry around with us.

Enjoy them.

Let me know how your memories go –

Hungry to Help

by   March 16, 2025 with No Comments

By Ashlie Miller

Fasting is a term many people are familiar with because it does not always necessitate a religious observance. Intermittent fasting has become a health choice for many. You can fast from certain meals or specific ingredients like sugar or foods like carbs. Cutting out media is often the choice for a mental or emotional fast. 

We are now in the season of Lent, where many do without a vice for 40 days and hopefully commit to prayer to prepare themselves for Easter.

There are many scripture passages Christians consider when fasting. We see Moses fast for 40 days before receiving the 10 Commandments. There is the fast Queen Esther held before approaching King Ahasuerus. Many Christians do a prolonged Daniel Fast, eating only fruits and vegetables. Even Jesus fasted for 40 days in the wilderness, enduring temptation from Satan. Jesus also gives guidelines for one’s appearance during a fast (Matthew 6:16-18). Sometimes, as Christians, the goal of fasting can be to have what many call a spiritual breakthrough or pray for specific end results. Perhaps God might act favorably upon one’s request in exchange for denying one’s desires. 

One chapter worth reading on true and false fasting is Isaiah 58. God’s chosen people thought they could pull one over on Him, pretending to worship the Lord and serve Him with delight in hopes of returned favor, but God could see through to their hearts (not that their actions left much to hide). They were guilty of oppressing their own people, for starters, and many more gross atrocities you can study in the Old Testament. They dare to question why God does not seem to hear and respond to them during their fast. 

God explains the type of fast He chooses to see – “loosening bonds of wickedness, letting the oppressed free, sharing bread, clothing the homeless, pouring out oneself for the hungry, satisfying the desire of the afflicted” (Isaiah 58). He promised His people to be their guide and strength during a proper fast and that they would flourish and be called repairers and restorers of their place as a light shining among the nations. 

It’s as though the evidence of self-denial isn’t in an altar show of worship but in sharing among the people, their own people, whom they were overlooking and mistreating horribly. Could it be that pure self-denial is not just doing without for one’s own sake but to bless someone else? I can easily do without cheesecake and deny myself the temptation most of the year. If someone made me a homemade, decadent cheesecake and, as an act of will, I put it in the fridge for a few days and waited, I would justify myself with a reward at the end of the week. But, the real test would be complete self-denial – giving that cheesecake to someone else and maybe even watching them enjoying it. (Don’t get any ideas!)

How does that translate to self-denial in periods of fasting? Would it look like investing your time into prepping a meal for someone else as you pray over their family? Could it be ignoring the distraction at your fingertips to sit quietly on the porch, lifting prayers for your neighbors? Can one prayerfully purge gently worn or excess clothing to donate to the local women and children’s ministry? When hangry pangs come – could one conquer oneself by extending grace, mercy, and hospitality to those trying patience during a fasting period?

While I cannot answer those questions for you, it appears God told His people that the evidence of pure self-denial and worship that pleased Him meant sharing. How could you share during your next period of fasting?

Ashlie Miller does indeed love a good cheesecake but would question whether giving it to a frenemy during a fast was a word from God or just a frenemy. You can email her at mrs.ashliemiller@gmail.com with your thoughts.

Gumballs!

by   March 15, 2025 with No Comments

By Doug Creamer

            I live next to some woods, which I enjoy because they provide both privacy and cooling shade in the heat of summer. The woods near my house are mainly pine trees. On the other end of the woods there are mainly hardwood trees. I enjoy the peacefulness of walking through the woods, which reminds me of my days in the Boy Scouts.

            There are several really big trees right on the edge of the woods, including a very old elm, several oaks, a couple of maples, and sadly, some sweetgum trees. The sweetgum trees are large and provide lots of great shade. BUT…they also provide lots of gumballs. They get in the gutters, flowerbeds, vegetable garden, and all over my yard. If I had a dollar for each one I would be very wealthy!

            I hate gumballs. They make walking in the yard difficult. The lawn mower hits them and throws them…sometimes at me! They are problems that get into everything and don’t provide any benefit to me.

            When we get windy storms I lie in bed and listen to them hitting the roof. I hear them rolling down the roof and probably getting stuck in the gutters. I have wondered at times why God created sweetgum trees. My curiosity goes beyond gumballs to include poison ivy and plants that have burrs. My list of questionable things also includes mosquitos, flies, and slugs. Some people might include jellyfish and snakes on the list.

            We need to be careful. There is a huge difference between asking God a question and questioning God. It is okay to ask God a question because you want to learn, grow, and have a better understanding. Are you asking to be teachable? I think it comes down to how you asked the question. Asking God, “Why is the sky blue?” is very different from, “Why did you make the sky blue?” The first sounds more curious while the second sounds more like you are questioning his color choice.

            I am afraid that my questions about gumballs and poison ivy might fall in the wrong category of questions. I want to be careful to not cross the line with God. We are never in a position to question God. When Job went to God with his questions, God confronted him. “Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundations?” I hope I never find myself in that place.

            In one hour Job lost all his children and his wealth. It is a very natural reaction for him to say, “God, why weren’t you watching over my children? Don’t you care that my wealth was stolen from me?” In this case, Job is accusing God of something He didn’t do. The Bible makes it clear that Satan is the accuser, destroyer, and thief. Job’s frustration with his situation was aimed in the wrong direction.

            When we are facing trials and challenges we can easily find ourselves just like Job. We raise our voices towards heaven and ask, “Where were you, God?” Think of the people in California who lost their homes to the fires or the people in our mountains who lost their homes to the flooding; it’s easy to understand why they might question God. I can understand why the parents of a little child who has cancer or the husband of a wife who was in a terrible car wreck might find themselves questioning God.

            First, we have to remember that God is NOT the author of the tragic situation. He is our GOOD Father who heals, restores, and rights the wrongs. He is the one who will send His children to help the one in need. He is the rescuer and the redeemer. God does allow our faith to be tested to see if we will trust Him in the darkest of times. But He is also the one who will come through for us in our difficult moments.

            I want to encourage you to bring your difficult things to God. Be careful not to question Him, but seek His wisdom, guidance, and comfort. Ask Him for help because you know He is a good Father and you can trust that He will see you through your situation. There is nothing too difficult for God. Nothing is impossible for Him. His love for you is deeper than you can ever understand. Put your hand in His. Follow Him. Trust Him. Believe in His goodness. He will see you through to the other side. This storm will pass. You can trust that the SON will shine on you.

Contact Doug Creamer at PO Box 777, Faith, NC 28041or doug@dougcreamer.com

Remembering All He Has Done

by   March 14, 2025 with No Comments

By Ed Traut

Psalms 40:2 He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.

  • We remind ourselves continually of all the things He has done!
  • We do not forget from where we have come and how He has delivered us and done great things for us.  We allow no pride or confidence of our own achievements
  • We recognize that He has given us a place to stand firmly in Him.

Prayer:  Lord it is all because of You.  I have nothing to boast in, but Your goodness and what You have done for me.  I rejoice in the fact that I stand firm and it is all in You.  Amen.
 

Ed Traut
Prophetic Life

Joe Harris Has Found His Sport

by   March 13, 2025 with No Comments

By David Freeze

Gotta’ Run

Joe Harris Has Found His Sport

    I can’t remember meeting Joe Harris for the first time, but he no doubt is a pleasure to have around the running and racing scene. Always upbeat, smiles just seem to follow along in Joe’s wake.

    Joe started running in 2013. He said, “My great friend, Terry Smith, was in charge of the Firefighter 5K at the Salisbury Y. He told me to come run in it. I downloaded a 5K app and started slowly. I had never been a runner, though I have always loved sports. I have had torn patella tendon surgery on both knees, so I was very cautious at first.’

     While trying to find something to do beside his son, Joe thought maybe running 5K events was something they could do together. Joe’s first 5K goal was to finish the race without stopping, which he did by finishing in a little over 36 minutes. Joe said. “When I got near the finish line, Ester Marsh was there cheering for everyone as we crossed the line, and I felt like I had won the race. At that point, I was hooked!”

      From then on, Joe was determined to finish races faster, racing only against himself. Joe added, “As I ran more, I started to lose weight. I have always enjoyed lifting weights, but cardio was not something I liked. For most of my life, my weight has gone up and down while topping out at close to 350 pounds. I would try every fad diet, with some success. But then the weight would come back. Even after I started running, I would lose some weight and then gain it back. In 2018, I lost my father to pancreatic cancer. At that point, I decided I had to get healthy. I might not be able to avoid getting cancer, but I could do better to keep from getting heart disease, or diabetes, among other issues.”

     Joe also started noticing the weekly Gotta’ Run articles in the paper. Joe said, “Those articles motivated me to start working harder at running. I began a routine where I would run every other day, and lift weights the in-between days. Thanks to my incredible wife, we started eating healthier as well. Since 2018 and hovering around 290 pounds, I have lost almost 120 pounds. I have stayed between 175-185 pounds for four years now. My best 5k time is 26:03 on the course that runs through my neighborhood. Still not a fast time, but my knees hurt when I try to run faster, so I am happy where I am.”

      Originally using 5k races to motivate himself to run, Joe now actually LOVES running! He said, “No matter how I feel when I start, I always feel great after I finish. Running is the best stress reliever since I have to unwind before I come home from work. The Y is great for me, as I can run on the track if it is too cold or wet to run outside.” 

     Joe grew up in Spencer, graduating from North Rowan in 1986. He has been local since age four and will be fifty-seven in August. Joe’s wife, Annette Harris, also grew up in Spencer. Their son Jake recently graduated from UNC Chapel Hill and is heading to grad school. 

     For years, Joe’s ultimate health goal was to get to “ONEderland”, anything under two hundred pounds, and in the healthy weight range according to doctors. Joe added, “Once there, I just wanted to maintain, and I am doing it. In fact, at my recent physical, my doctor actually asked how I lost all the weight. I laughed and told her that I just did what docs have been saying for years, to maintain.healthy eating and working out.”

     Joe continued, “I sincerely owe my life to Terry Smith, David Freeze, my wife Annette, son Jake, and my Y people- Aaron Crowe, Ester Marsh, and Sara Noble-Phillips. These people have provided support and the encouragement I used to transform my body. I truly believe I would not have survived the pandemic years had I weighed 300 pounds. So, yes, these amazing people saved my life!” 

     Look for Joe at the upcoming races by checking the SRR calendar at www.salisburyrowanrunners.org

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